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Sharyn LeMasurier
May 2009
Dear Sharyn,
My husband and I have been together 11.5 years and married for 7. When we first got together, neither of us thought we wanted kids. Now that we’re older he now feels that he wants kids and won’t be happy unless he has them. I still don’t know if I want them. If we can’t agree on this, our marriage is not going to last and that devastates me because we love each other so much. Some days I think I want kids and some days I don’t. I don’t know what to do – how do I know if I was meant to have children? I would hate to lose my husband over this but at the same time, what if we decide to start a family and it is the wrong decision? Help!
~ Heidi ~
Hi Heidi,
Thank you for your question. When you and your husband chose to marry and share your life journey together, you agreed there would be no children from your union. Somewhere along the way, your husband had a change of heart, which challenges that agreement. He is asking you to accommodate his change of heart, which has led to confusion for you. Clearly, when you agreed to not have children you were serious about the decision.
You and hubby would be wise to sit and chat. Go back to the time when the original decision was made and you agreed to no children. What was the basis of that decision for him, and for you at that time? It is very important for your husband to understand what made him change his mind and why it is so important. Once he uncovers that truth, then you can try to grasp it’s validity for yourself and make any further decisions from there. It would be wise to attempt to put emotion aside in this discussion, and only use the facts as you both know them, being as subjective as you can. Should the two of you find this process difficult, an intermediary would be suggested. Find a good marriage counselor who can help you unravel the concerns to the answers you both need. If your love is strong as you say it is, this will not be the breakup of a relationship, but perhaps the exploring of a brand new adventure ahead together as you learn more about one another. Good luck to the both of you.
Namaste from SharynSharyn LeMasurier is a psychic counselor and medium and the owner of The Studio Holistic Health Centre in Red Deer. She utilizes her psychic gifts to assist clients in resolving current issues to enable them to influence their own future in a positive way. For more information on Sharyn visit www.thestudiohhc.com.