What's Above -
With Clairvoyant Kim
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February, March, April 2010

My husband passed away. I really thought we were especially close but I don't feel that I have had any contact or messages from him since he passed. Is he still close and can he see me?

~ Sherri C.,Red Deer, Alberta ~

I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. Yes, he can see you and can still feel the love that you have for him. Messages can be very subtle and easy to miss if you are not aware of some of the common ways that souls let us know that they are with us. Reoccurring thoughts are probably the most common sign. "Why am I thinking about my Grandma all day today"...or memories of times with my father keep popping into my thoughts"....any spontaneous thought or memory of a passed loved one is a signal that they are trying to get your attention and make a connection with you. Any smell, sound, song or anything that makes you stop and think of him...it's him. We really do not die, we just change form. Everything in the universe, including humans are made up of the same matter, energy. Energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only change form. We change form when we are conceived and change form again when we "die". So, our loved ones are not separate from us, they are close and walk with us. They are not "there" and we are "here"....we are all together just operating at different vibrations. Ask your husband to give you an indication that he is with you, release the thought and go about your day......before the day is done, he will give you a sign that he is with you.

I had a reading with you a few years ago to contact my mother who passed away from COPD. I felt very much at peace after the reading. My sisters and I want to know if we did the right thing by taking our beloved mother off life support. (She passed a few hours later)

~ Kathy B. ~

Great question! We all come into this physical world voluntarily and we leave voluntarily. Nobody goes before their time. It is always the soul’s choice when and if to leave at any given time. This principle is true in all cases including abortion, miscarriage and suicides. If it was your mother’s intention to stay and recover, she would have. So, even though you may feel that you and your sisters made that choice for her, you did not, you just helped her carry out a decision that she made herself, and for that you should feel blessed. She is certainly at peace now, for without a doubt, she was very tired.

I have been trying to makes some serious changes in my life but so far I have failed to achieve them. I am trying to stay focused as a new year is here. Any thoughts or advice as to why I am struggling with making these changes and what can I do to make sure of success in 2010?

~ Marley J., Campbell River, BC~

Awesome question! If you want something in life and it is not showing up, you are doing something wrong. The something wrong is that you truly do not believe that you can have it... money, love...etc. You may think that you want it, even very much, but if you do not have the belief that you can have it to back it up, it will not show up for you. The Universe responds to what you believe and feel not what you think. When you feel it, you believe it, and when you believe it, that is when the magic of the Universe will bring you what you desire. Be clear about where you are and be very clear about the end result. The Universe will take care of everything in the middle. See it in your life, feel it in your life, believe that it is already in your life and it will, like magic, appear in your life.

I am really trying to listen to my inner voice, but it seems that I am always getting more than one answer??...How can that be?

~ Alice S.,High River, Alberta ~

Your inner voice is your compass, your guide and your navigator through life. It is the voice of God. This inner voice will always guide you to the best and or optimum choice for yourself. It is always right and always there. If you are having trouble hearing it, then you are simply thinking too much. The noise of the world will drown out the voice of God / Universe if you let it. That is why meditation is so important. If you feel that you are hearing multiple answers, the thinking is over taking your feelings. Cast your problem or dilemma to the Universe, ask for guidance and then let it go. Before long, the answer will pop into your thoughts. Nobody is ever alone to make a decision themselves...the Universe is there to help at all times...just ask.

Kim Dennis is a proven clairvoyant medium who resides in Calgary. She is the author of the book What's Above?, a radio host on 1060 AM in Calgary, Thursday evenings at 7 p.m. and is currently producing a second television program. Her CD is also available on her website at www.clairvoyantkim.com.

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