What's Above -
With Clairvoyant Kim
www.clairvoyantkim.com

May 2009

I have lost two brothers and both parents. One brother died from an accident and the other brother was murdered. I was told that the brother who was murdered has not "crossed over" for some reason. Is this possible and is there anything that I can do to help him cross?

~ Darlene Z., Regina, Saskatchewan ~

Many people talk about souls not being able to reach the light, I am not sure why, because in my experience, all souls go to a different plane. It has been my experience that when a soul disconnects from the physical body, that soul has in fact "crossed over" or is now operating at a different vibration. There is a resting period for souls, which can be a long "time", if the soul suffered greatly, cancer or a violent passing), when they were on the physical plane. It is difficult enough to lose a loved one in such a traumatic way, but to think that he is not at rest must be awful for you. Please be assured that both your brothers are together and in bliss. For sure! I see them with a beloved grandfather and they are walking together in the woods and are very, very, peaceful.

My ex-wife passed away this spring. Both of us have re-married. I am wondering if we will have any contact or connection in the afterlife when I pass on.

~ W. B., Edmonton, Alberta ~

Cute question! Oh yes, of course. Even though she is your ex wife, you will reconnect with her and all the people that you had a relationship with here on the earth plane. I am sure that even now, you get fleeting thoughts or memories from her. This is her way of letting you know that she is close and that she still cares and watches over you. (See how great "heaven" is, no grudges) And I am certain that she wants you to be happy and fulfilled in your new life.

My grandmother passed away last year about this time. She was a very loving and caring woman and the best grandma anyone could ask for. I know that she is okay, but I am wondering if you can try to reach her and let her know that we miss her very much. thank you and god bless.

~ Edith T., Calgary, Alberta ~

It is so difficult to lose someone who meant so much to so many people. Because she was so dear, losing the comfort of her love can really take some time to heal. The soul of your grandmother is still very much alive. She is just operating at a different vibration. Because hearing is vibrational, your grandma can still hear you, loud and clear. The first sense for a new baby is its hearing and the last sense to leave the physical body in death is the ability to hear. She can also feel the love that you feel for her. So, keep talking to her, ask her for signs that she is close and she will give them to you. She tells me that she brings the smell of spring flowers to you. Lovely!

I recently lost my step-daughter and her father, my husband, is having a very difficult time. I want him to feel that she is safe and happy. How can I get him to believe in the after-life? I feel that he will be able to handle her passing easier if he was a "believer".

~ Elva H., Unity, Saskatchewan ~

First, I am so sorry for your loss. No one would dispute that losing a child is the most difficult loss of all. One of the reasons is because children come from us, from our bodies, our DNA. That is why it truly feels like part of the parent dies with the child. You are so right, if your husband would open up to the possibility that his daughter is still very much alive, just in a different way, this can take the sting out of her passing. I am sure that she is giving him many signals that she is there and she is very close to him when he is driving. There is no way to "make" him a believer. People believe, if and when they are going to, in their own time. I am sending you a copy of my CD in hoping that it may help in your healing.

My daughter is 2 1/2 years old and she plays with someone in her bedroom that she calls Clara. She says that clara sings to her and tells her funny stories about animals. My daughter does not seem frightened, should I be concerned?

~ Gayle W., Olds, Alberta ~

Not at all! All children three and under see "them" all the time. They do not know that they are not supposed to see "those" people. If you have a child that is a "talker", they sure can tell you about souls that they have come in contact with. They are never scared; children can be the best indicators of what it is like on the other side. Pets see and hear things that we don't and like children, they can tap into a higher vibration. So, not to worry, this usually fades sometime after their third birthday.

Kim Dennis is a proven clairvoyant medium who resides in Calgary. She is the author of the book What's Above?, a radio host on 1060 AM in Calgary, Thursday evenings at 7 p.m. and is currently producing a second television program for the fall. Her new CD is also available on her website at www.clairvoyantkim.com. We invite you to send your questions about the afterlife to Kim at kim@thevioletray.ca

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