Inspirations from Binah -
Advice To Empower You!
By yvette Soler
www.eternallightenergy.com

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August, September, October 2010

Hello yvette,

I feel that I am a very nice, caring person but I am having trouble finding friends. I also am a very shy person and have never really had a serious relationship with the opposite sex. I tried to find friends and recently for the past 2 plus years have been online either placing ads or responding to ads looking for friends. There were people either at school or work that I wanted to have as friends but nothing panned out. I don’t know if I will ever find any people to hang out with me. I see people that aren’t very nice but they have lots of friends.

~ Thanks - Emily ~

Inspirations from Binah:

There are many factors that must be taken into account in order to find the true heart of the why you are having problems forming relationships. One reason may lie in your definition of the roles “friend” and “lover”. Depending on what you consider social norms, you may have a specific idea on how a friend or lover should act. And while you think you are open to all experiences, you find yourself disappointed because people don’t behave the way you “expect” them to.

Another common problem is that because of an unrecognized fear or belief, you are not attracting people you can have healthy relationships with. While you may be actively trying to find people, through ads and common interests, an unconscious force may be pushing them away. Maybe you were hurt by a friend once or deep down you are afraid of having anyone see your true self or you fear getting wrapped up into negative activities due to peer pressure, like a close relation once did.

Tied to the energetical layers of our physical body are karmic cords that can bind. These emotional cords are created in many ways, and once they are in place, will remain there until you consciously release them. Imagine giant ropes covering your body and tying you to a specific idea or thought pattern. Try as you might, each step you take away from the source just makes the ropes constrict more tightly. Luckily, once identified, you can hack away at these cords until you are left energetically free to attract what you want most.

If you feel like you are having problems finding people to share your life with, you must first discover, what is preventing you from attracting lasting relationships. Take this question into meditation with your Higher Self. There may be more than one cord, so think of this as an iterative process, like peeling the layers of an onion. Identify one thing that is radiating “don’t be close to me” energy, such as a fear of being rejected, a strict protocol of behavior amongst friends or a personal barrier against letting people see your vulnerabilities. Whatever the source of the first cord, be honest in your assessment, for only when you accept its existence can you begin its release.

Now that you have identified the first cord, it is time to choose a technique for cutting it. There are many wonderful methods that you can do yourself. If you find the cord too strong for you to cut on your own, seek out an expert that can help you.

A simple method for cutting the cord is a combination of personal acceptance and energetical cutting. Spend some time working on the root cause until you feel like you emotionally understand the tie. You can use any number of wonderful tools, such as psychology, NLP, Reiki, etc. For the final cut, sit in a sacred circle, invoke your guardians and light some clearing incense such as sage, Nag Champa or Dragon’s Blood, before you.

Picture the source of the cord beyond the incense. Keep it outside of your body – after all the work you’ve done releasing it, you want to ensure it does not re-attach. Feel the energy between you and the source and using the index and middle fingers of your right hand cut from top to bottom all the cords you feel. Do this for as long as necessary until you sense you are free. As you cut, ask your guardians to guide your work and transmute the energy being released into something you can use to attract healthy relationships.

Once you are done, feel the new, positive energy created from the old cords. Accept this energy, thank your guardians and clear your circle. After a few days, go back into meditation and ask if there is another cord you need to release. Continue this process until everything is clear.

Cords are created in many different ways and situations so add this technique to your toolbox for future use… one day one of your new friends may ask you for some advice.

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Blessings,

yvette Soler

yvette Soler is a Teacher Initiate in the Brotherhood and Sisterhood of Light, Reiki Practitioner, Ritual Master and Kabbalist. She is the voice behind Inspirations from Binah, www.inspirationsfrombinah.com, providing her personal advice and inspiration for you. yvette currently resides in Europe where she travels extensively bringing in the light as an inspirational speaker, teacher and healer.

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